I was trying to set up Jason (this dude I work with) with one of my best friends, Ali. Recently, Ali had seen a picture of Jason and dubbed him "Hot Jason."
With a girly giggle I replied, "Well, let's see what we can do about that."
After telling Jason about Ali and trying to set up a meeting (making it obvious that she was interested), Jason thwarted my plan by telling me, "I don't know if I can be set up with the friend of a girl I have a crush on, if I'm gonna come clean with that."
This was not part of the plan! ha. Shows how much plans work.
It's just--I knew Jason had a thing for me last year, but I didn't know know. I thought that this "thing" had passed. Turns out that it didn't.
Now, I know what some of you are gonna say. Cause you've said it before, and you've figured me out (for my lack of a dating life). You'll say, "Give this guy a chance, Ashley. Go on a date..."
Yeah, you know who are! My polite reply is, "I don't want to!"
Simply, I don't. I don't really have an interest in this guy...do I have to explain further? Besides the fact that he has no real relationship with God (yes, this is important to me), I'm just not interested. Along the lines of She's Just Not That Into You.
But I always feel a bit bad after telling someone that I'm not that interested, which I did to Jason (as nice as possible). Especially because I work with the guy.
It is all kind of funny, though...