Dude, what's up with Beijing? I'm sure you've all seen these pictures before...but pollution much?That's. just. nasty.
Anyway, to update you...I talked to J a couple nights ago online. Now, I've talked to him a few times before, and everytime he talks about how he's depressed...yada yada yada. (Because his enagagement was called off in March).
So when I tried to give him advice on how to get better and how I got better after he hurt me (and you all know that he HURT me very badly), he basically rejected it.
He said something to the effect of, "This may sound cruel but my situation is worse than yours was."
Can you say jerk? How about asshole? Yes, that works better.
The reason I talked to him a few times since our friendship/relationship dissolved was because I still cared about his well-being. But after this most recent conversation, I realize just how selfish he is. He truly thinks about himself and himself alone. Why should I bother to help? On top of that, I can't help. Maybe once he's lost all of his friends (and he's lost most of them already) he'll realize what a conceited prick he's been.
So I'll wish him a Goodluck and Goodbye and be on my way (yeah, he's in the top five, of course). Talking to him at all won't help him and won't help me.
I think the saying may be true...that past lovers can never remain friends. At least in this situation it is.
